Ah, Thanksgiving. A time for turkey, stuffing, family drama, and way too many dishes. Let’s be real: the holidays bring out the best…and the most chaotic moments. Between Uncle Bob’s questionable political rants, your third trip to the store because you forgot the damn cranberry sauce, and hosting a parade of relatives who never RSVP’d, intimacy might feel like the last thing on your to-do list.
But let me tell you something—you deserve connection, pleasure, and a break from the madness. Intimacy isn’t just about sex (although, let’s be honest, that’s part of it). It’s about reconnecting with your partner, prioritizing yourselves amidst the chaos, and finding joy in those private, steamy moments. So, let’s talk about how to spice things up this Thanksgiving—even when life feels like a whirlwind.
1. Sneak in Some Foreplay During Prep Time
Foreplay doesn’t have to start in the bedroom—it can happen while you’re basting the turkey or peeling potatoes. Seriously. Throw a flirty comment their way while chopping veggies (“I bet you’d look even hotter in just an apron”). Or sneak in a quick kiss when no one’s looking.
If you’re feeling stuck on how to get things going, grab my Foreplay for Couples Download for easy tips and tricks to build anticipation. The holidays are stressful enough; foreplay can be your secret weapon for breaking the tension (and not the wishbone).
2. Create a Little Post-Turkey Escape
After the meal, everyone’s either in a food coma or glued to football. This is your chance to steal away for some one-on-one time. Set the mood with a little pheromone perfume spray to get the sparks flying.
Want to take things up a notch? Enter the Love Pillow Heart Pillow. It’s not just cute; it’s ergonomically designed for comfort and enhanced positions. Think of it as your post-turkey MVP—because who says dessert can’t happen in the bedroom?
3. Don’t Underestimate the Power of Dirty Talk
Look, I get it. Between hosting, cooking, and managing everyone’s holiday expectations, your brain is running on fumes. That’s where dirty talk comes in. It’s quick, easy, and doesn’t require much energy (but delivers BIG results).
Not sure where to start? My Dirty Talk Handbook is your holiday lifesaver. It’s full of spicy one-liners and tips to make your partner weak in the knees. A well-timed whisper like, “I can’t wait to spread you out like the sides on this table,” can turn the whole day around. You’re welcome.
4. Add a Little Holiday Spice to the Bedroom
If you’re ready to really blow off some steam, let’s talk toys. Here are my top picks to level up your holiday intimacy game:
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Door Jam Sex Sling: Who knew door frames could be so sexy? This sling is perfect for adding some creative flair to your evening. No assembly required—just fun, excitement, and positions you didn’t know were possible.
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Spread ‘Em Bar and Cuffs Set: Feeling adventurous? This set is perfect for those who like a little dominance and submission. After all, Thanksgiving is about gratitude, and this might just leave your partner extra thankful.
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B-Luv’d Arousal Gel: Want to heat things up? This gel is a game-changer. Apply a little, and let the tingles do their magic. It’s the perfect addition to your nightstand arsenal.
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Geminii Vibrator: Whether you’re flying solo or inviting your partner along for the ride, this dual-action toy delivers. It’s sleek, powerful, and guaranteed to take you to cloud nine faster than that third glass of wine. This thing has TURBO speed... its um... intense..
5. Reclaim Your Libido (Even When You’re Exhausted)
The holidays can be a libido killer, no doubt. Between the stress, exhaustion, and endless to-do lists, it’s easy to feel disconnected from your desire. But here’s the thing—your libido isn’t gone; it just needs a little TLC.
My Reclaim Your Libido Download is designed for moments like this. It’s full of practical tools to help you reconnect with your body, rebuild your confidence, and reignite that spark—even when life is hectic. Because pleasure isn’t just a luxury; it’s a necessity.
6. Remember: Intimacy is Self-Care
Let’s not forget that intimacy is just as much about you as it is about your partner. Whether it’s taking a moment to apply that B-Luv’d Arousal Gel for yourself or treating yourself to a solo session with the Geminii Vibrator, self-pleasure is a form of self-care. And during the holidays, self-care is everything.
Get Your Turkey Stuffed
The holidays are crazy—we all know that. But intimacy doesn’t have to take a back seat to mashed potatoes and pumpkin pie. With a little creativity, some strategic planning, and maybe a spicy toy or two, you can keep the spark alive even during Thanksgiving chaos.
So, before you collapse into bed from holiday exhaustion, remember this: You’re allowed to prioritize pleasure. You’re allowed to make time for connection. And you’re allowed to have a damn good time while doing it.
Now, go carve out some sexy time for yourself and your partner—and don’t forget to check out my Dirty Talk Handbook, Reclaim Your Libido Download, and my favorite bedroom gear at Empowerotica. Because the holidays are better when they’re hot and spicy.
Happy Thanksgiving—and may your dessert be as sweet as your bedroom adventures. 😉
I'm Courtney Hurin, your climax queen, and I'm glad you came.